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SHIRI, ARIEL & KFIR BIBAS – May Hashem avenge your Blood!

SHIRI, ARIEL & KFIR BIBAS – May Hashem avenge your Blood!

by | Feb 27, 2025 | Global Terrorism, Israel, WDIK

 

הִנֵּה לֹא־יָנוּם וְלֹא יִישָׁן, שׁוֹמֵר יִשְׂרָאֵל

Hineh lo yanum v’lo yishan, Shomer Yisrael

Psalm 121:4

“Behold, the Guardian of Israel neither slumbers nor sleeps.”

💔 SHIRI, ARIEL, AND KFIR BIBAS BURIED TOGETHER IN A SINGLE COFFIN, SYMBOLIZING THEIR UNBREAKABLE BOND

🇮🇱 Shiri Bibas and her two young sons, Ariel and Kfir, were laid to rest today at Tsoher Cemetery near Kibbutz Nir Oz. Their remains were placed in one coffin, symbolizing their deep connection. According to reports, Shiri was wrapped around her children in an eternal embrace, just as she had held them close during their abduction by Hamas on October 7, 2023.

The funeral was filled with grief as mourners gathered to say their final goodbyes. The Bibas family’s heartbreaking story has touched many, and today’s ceremony reflected the immense pain and loss felt by their loved ones.

Photo: Mourners gathered at Hostages Square in Tel Aviv, standing beside a memorial for the Bibas family on the day of their funeral.

(Source: AFP / Photo by Ahmad GHARABLI)

Shema Yisrael, Adonai Eloheinu, Adonai Echad.

Baruch Shem kevod malchuto l’olam va’ed.

V’ahavta et Adonai Elohecha, b’chol levav’cha, u’v’chol nafshecha, u’v’chol me’odecha.

V’hayu ha’devarim ha’eleh, asher anochi m’tzavecha hayom, al l’vavecha.

V’shinantam l’vanecha, v’dibarta bam b’shiv’techa b’veitecha, u’v’lechtecha va’derech, u’v’shochb’cha u’v’kumecha.

U’k’shartam l’ot al yadecha, v’hayu l’totafot bein einecha.

U’chtavtam al mezuzot beitecha u’vish’arecha.

mindLens Ascention to Zihuatanejo

mindLens Ascention to Zihuatanejo

by | Jan 2, 2025 | WDIK

The phoenix, of fire and renewal, the St Elmo’s fire inside, the rebirth and resilience, rising gloriously from the ashes to soar anew. Where vengeance and justice intertwine with the unyielding will to rebuild what has been shattered. Turn personal loss into a fierce crusade against corruption, bad people, nasty and now woke & moral decay – in pursuit of peace amidst chaos.

In our darkest moments, there exists the potential for transformation and hope for those strong enough to have bared the burden.  Truth Exists, Loyalty is Black & White it is not grey! Accountability must return but more to the point – Accountability must be had and 2025 is now deemed the year of the Reckoning! Rise of the Phoenix if you so please! Ha-tshoo-va la-Ha-shem [ הַתְשׁוּבָה לַהַשֵּׁם ] for us all!

Born Innocent, Taught to Fail: Bad Parenting and Band-Aid Laws Shaping Our Kids

Born Innocent, Taught to Fail: Bad Parenting and Band-Aid Laws Shaping Our Kids

by | Dec 10, 2024 | FUPS, LifeCoach

Born Innocent, taught to Fail! Let’s Talk About Parenting and Accountability!

This is a massive topic, so I’ll keep it short and to the point for now. We’ll start with the basics and dive deeper into the details later.

Here’s the essence of it:

• Kids aren’t born overweight.

• Kids aren’t born addicted to drugs.

• Kids aren’t born criminals.

• Kids aren’t born polite—or rude.

These are learned behaviors.

“Monkey see, monkey do” sums it up. Kids learn from what they see around them. And no, it’s not always directly from parents—but parents play a big role.

Take, for example, the knee-jerk reaction of banning kids under 16 from social media. While the intent is to protect them, the reality is you can’t rely on the government or an app to raise your kids.

Here’s the hard truth: if you let an iPad or a phone babysit your child while you scroll through your own screen, you’re setting them up to fail. The internet isn’t going away. Social media, predators, and bullies aren’t going away. But what is disappearing? Your time with your kids.

If you’re not spending time teaching, guiding, and being present, how do you expect your kids to grow up? They start innocent, but it’s what they’re exposed to that shapes them—good or bad.

Parents, this is on us.

You can legislate, blame the internet, or point fingers at teachers, friends, or society, but at the end of the day, kids learn from us. If you don’t have the patience to parent, maybe reconsider having kids in the first place.

Yes, this is uncomfortable to hear. But ignoring it won’t make the problem go away. If we don’t start paying attention to what our kids are doing—online and offline—this issue will snowball into something much bigger, an unstoppable pandemic of failed generations.

It’s time to stop finger-pointing and take accountability. Parenting isn’t easy, but it’s necessary. And it starts with showing up for your kids.

Stay tuned for more on this, because this is a conversation we must keep having as this includes learned behaviours leading to domestic violence, gender disrespect etc from female males and the aggressive society in generally – which and here’s the kicker, ” They learn from the very tool you gave them to keep them quiet!”

Two Wolves Within Us

Two Wolves Within Us

by | Nov 12, 2024 | Words of Wisdom

Two Wolves With In Us – [Tale of Two Wolves]

The “Tale of Two Wolves” is a powerful Cherokee story illustrating the inner conflict we all face. It describes two wolves inside us: one symbolizing negative qualities like anger, hurt, jealousy, and ego, while the other embodies joy, peace, love, and truth. When a young boy asks which wolf wins, his grandfather responds, “The one you feed,” emphasizing that our choices determine whether good or bad qualities dominate our lives. This story serves as a reminder to nurture positive traits within ourselves, as what we focus on shapes who we become.

This goes the same for the CHANGING of choices, bad choices that were made for you. That means, for example, if you had or have a not so nice upbringing, your parents were bad parents, you are having issues at school or work, you’ve grown up in an environment thats made you angry, sad, combative – make the conscience choice to change. As in the video, it may be a war at first within you – however, persist, strive for a better existance. Don’t be afraid to let go of people – it’s there loss, you’re gain and not the end of the world!

Hey Mate – Vote Trump 2024 😉👍

Hey Mate – Vote Trump 2024 😉👍

by | Nov 6, 2024 | WDIK

Vote Trump 1 @realDonaldTrump. @JoeRogan @elonmusk agree – you guys (US Citizen’s) aren’t voting for just the US, the world needs the US to make the right choice! DO NOT BLOW YOUR OPPORTUNITY – Make America Great AGAIN and save the rest of us! Vote 1 @realDonaldTrump!

Accountability MIA

Accountability MIA

by | Oct 23, 2024 | LifeCoach

Accountability (noun):

• The fact or condition of being accountable; responsibility.

For Example:

• Their lack of accountability has led to #whatdoiknow having to point out the glaring fact – even your feelings need to be accountable. With accountability being MIA, its mate the blame game will move in.

Accountability refers to the obligation (Responsibility, Duty, Requirement) of an individual, group or organization to account for their actions, accept responsibility for them, and disclose the results in a transparent manner. It is often related to the expectation of being answerable for fulfilling duties or upholding responsibilities. However, one is also accountable on at a personal level and this is where MIA coms into play

More importantly its the accepting and taking responsibity for your own decisions, actions and words. This means when something goes right, you have the right to be proud and accept the accelades however, it also means when something goes wrong, we are accountable and take responsibility for our own actions.

Unfortunately, like respect, manners and logic – accountability has become MIA – Missing in action! Missing in action I mean gone, disappeared and this is evident in everything going on and going wrong with society today – no matter where you look. In a world with no accountability there can only be chaos distrust and destruction. All of this happening in silence under the guise and behind the excuses of “Changing Times”, “keeping with the times”, “and seen to be doing the right thing rather than doing the right thing”.

This is not OK, whether you’re C-Suite Management, Law Enforcement or Joe Bloggs in the street – you HAVE TO BE ACCOUNTABLE  for yourself and your actions. This should be taught to you at home by your parents and in schools. It is very simple!

Being accountable means taking responsibility for your actions and being ready to explain or face the consequences of what you do. It’s about being honest, owning up to mistakes, and making things right when necessary.

Accountability Responsibility Onus Respect Duty Requirement Right Culpability Answerability Wrong
Psalm 23

Psalm 23

by | Oct 2, 2024 | WDIK

The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not lack.

He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside still waters.

He restores my soul; He guides me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil, my cup overflows.

Surely goodness and kindness will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for length of days.

ה’ רֹעִי לֹא אֶחְסָר

בִּנְאוֹת דֶּשֶׁא יַרְבִּיצֵנִי, עַל מֵי מְנֻחוֹת יְנַהֲלֵנִי

נַפְשִׁי יְשׁוֹבֵב, יַנְחֵנִי בְמַעְגְּלֵי צֶדֶק לְמַעַן שְׁמוֹ

גַּם כִּי אֵלֵךְ בְּגֵיא צַלְמָוֶת, לֹא אִירָא רָע כִּי אַתָּה עִמָּדִי, שִׁבְטְךָ וּמִשְׁעַנְתֶּךָ הֵמָּה יְנַחֲמֻנִי

תַּעֲרֹךְ לְפָנַי שֻׁלְחָן, נֶגֶד צֹרְרָי; דִּשַּׁנְתָּ בַשֶּׁמֶן רֹאשִׁי, כּוֹסִי רְוָיָה

אַךְ טוֹב וָחֶסֶד יִרְדְּפוּנִי, כָּל יְמֵי חַיָּי; וְשַׁבְתִּי בְּבֵית ה’ לְאֹרֶךְ יָמִים

FUPS – What is it?

FUPS – What is it?

by | Aug 30, 2024 | FUPS, WDIK

FUPS (Fucked Up Parent Syndrome): A term describing the detrimental impact of poor parenting on children, encompassing a wide range of behaviors that negatively influence a child’s development. This includes commonly recognized forms of bad parenting, such as neglect or abuse, as well as more complex issues like parental alienation. FUPS highlights the use of children as tools or pawns in parental conflicts, where one parent manipulates the child to harm the other, resulting in psychological harm to the child. The syndrome also covers the long-term effects of these behaviors, which can extend into the child’s adulthood. FUPS underscores the lasting consequences of dysfunctional family dynamics on a child’s emotional and mental well-being.

End Result of FUPS: Children who grow up under the influence of FUPS often carry significant emotional scars into adulthood. Without guidance from someone close, who helps them understand that the negative experiences were not their fault, these individuals may internalize blame, leading to self-esteem issues and ongoing emotional turmoil. Recognizing and accepting that their feelings and experiences were shaped by external factors, not by any fault of their own, is crucial. This realization is the key to healing, allowing them to let go of misplaced guilt and move forward, fostering personal growth and a healthier outlook on life.

Broadly summed up as Cause & Affect;

• Neglect or Abuse: Physical, emotional, or psychological harm inflicted by parents.

• Parental Alienation: One parent manipulating a child against the other parent.

• Using Children as Pawns: Parents leveraging their children in conflicts to hurt the other parent.

• Dysfunctional Family Dynamics: Persistent conflicts, instability, and unhealthy relationships within the family.

• Lack of Emotional Support: Failure to provide necessary affection, understanding, and guidance to the child.

Effects of FUPS:

• Emotional Scars: Long-lasting psychological damage, leading to issues such as anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem.

• Internalised Blame: Children may wrongly believe they are at fault for the negative experiences and emotions they face.

• Impaired Relationships: Difficulty in forming and maintaining healthy relationships in adulthood.

• Ongoing Emotional Turmoil: Persistent feelings of guilt, shame, or unworthiness.

• Delayed Healing: Without external support or intervention, individuals may struggle to overcome these challenges, hindering personal growth and emotional recovery.

Sometimes …

Sometimes …

by | Aug 12, 2024 | FUPS, WDIK

WDIK

Sometimes, you just have to walk away from people who don’t value you. It’s not easy, but knowing your self-worth is crucial. If someone doesn’t show the same level of care or commitment, it’s time to step back for your own well-being. Staying in a toxic relationship only leads to more pain and drama.

The longer you stay, the bigger your problems get, like a snowball rolling out of control. To avoid this, sometimes you need to fold and walk away—whether it’s a family member, partner, colleague, or even a stranger. Remember Kenny Rogers’ song “The Gambler”: know when to hold ’em, fold ’em, and when to walk away.

Fact Truth Fiction Perception – All Flexible?

Fact Truth Fiction Perception – All Flexible?

by | Aug 5, 2024 | WDIK

I respectfully disagree—#whatdoiknow! The notion that fact, fiction, and perception are interchangeable and transferable is increasingly becoming a social construct, which, in my view, is leading to societal breakdown.

I struggle to understand how any society can function with the belief that absolutes are negotiable. If we accept that 2 + 2 can equal 5, or that gravity, science, and physics are up for debate, we’re inviting chaos. This erosion of truth undermines the family unit, damages our children, and threatens future generations. To any educated observer, this can only be seen as institutionalised and systemic obsurdity and craziness.

That said, I remain open to new ideas and shifts in perspective. I welcome input from doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists, marriage counselors, trauma specialists, or anyone who has thoughts on the content here. Please feel free to reach out: media@whatdoiknow.info. Let’s engage in a public dialogue—no secretive games, just open discussion.

WDIK exists to provoke thought, challenge the status quo (because I can and I should), and share my experiences, insights, and humble opinions and perhaps a little accuntability for some.

The mustard’s off the hotdog! 🌭 😎

Life’s too straight without twisties .

🌪️ Welcome, and Enjoy!